Life Change!

Started a new job this week... life been real...
Real Grownup that is..
Be back with you kids next wednesday...way past the bedtime....

Dream Deep

Set your dreams unreachable....


I get bored with what those around me see as examples of "life success"...
Everyone reaching for the same career or entrepreneurial type goal..
So I set my own personal life goals...
They are a combo of love, religious, family, financial, educational, fitness/physical shape, happiness, career like goals all in one...
I set myself to focus on 1-3 goals a day and baby step to improving on each one.

Helps me stay organized and focused on moving forward in my OWN DREAMS

I think as we age our dreams should too
then re-invent themselves in case we ever reach one
and establish new ones!

Where do you feel like the line is drawn between a "goal" and a "dream"? hmmm...

*Till next time y'all!

Our Youth...

I have talked to new friends 5 and 10 years younger then me..
mostly african american male friends...
I do worry... at times who will run our country or who i hope to see make strides in our community for "US" 2020 and beyond...

The crazy thing is...my parents who are about 30 or less years older then me and still married..since 1977...
Worry about my OWN generation and what we are doing now to "TRY" and be leaders in our community..

If you are 30+ or older like me... do you worry about what your son and daughter will represent for the future of 'US' in the USofA?

*worry*
#dosomethingaboutit

Family

Everyday we wake up and do what we think is important...

For whom do you do important things for?

Yourself?

Your wife/husband/fiance'?

Your child/ren?

Your mom/dad/grandparents/folks who cared for you when you were young?

What do they mean to you?

in 2012...in this economy, a lot of family members care for other family members...

But even if they didn't financially share with them, it's important to spend quality time around that loved one(s)... it's something most desire to do...on a regular basis.

Family, can be a part of a daily routine. 

It's what helps some folks live, day to day.

Three things about family are very interesting to me.

1) We should always love them, even if we don't like them

2) Who once cared and looked out for us while we were young, we may come to care for ourselves

3) New Family bonded by love and not blood should be cared for just as much as old family bonded by blood...

What is your thought about that last one? *Care to Share*

I will always love my family, they have done everything they can to care for me 

But I am super excited about a new family of my own! 

Whenever God decides... I am ready :)

TTYL

True Purpose

Today I wonder what God's True plan for me is.
Today is Thursday Folks...I missed Wednesday weekly blog check in session...
But today here I am still Blogging...
Because maybe, this blog will help someone with there purpose...any type of purpose...
Life Long Purpose, Today's Purpose, Smile/Laugh Purpose, Think Purpose...
Ponder Purpose....hmmm


Outside of our Divine Purpose to Serve God and Help others to as well..
What are we or what are YOU here for?
Is it do that 9-5 you do every day?
To start that family you started?
To be a entrepreneur and be great at it?

WHAT IS IT?
How do we know?
If we were all born knowing, do you think we would do everything in us to make sure we reach that purpose? Or would we ignore/defy it?
Sometimes I think life would be easier if we knew day 1 though.
And our Elders showed/told/helped us understand what is as we became to understand.
That way ...there would be less Humans out there making silly life changing mistakes trying to "Find Themselves" or understand "What their life is all about" right?

Or maybe...the purpose is about learning all this cool stuff on the way to learning our true purpose?
Maybe you won't know your true purpose until it just HITS! you one day! *BAM!*
What do I/We do in the meantime though?

#praisehim
#loveoneanother
#expandyourmind

Forbidden Fruits....

Today I want to blog about....

The things we are not "supposed" to have...
Do you ever stop and ask yourself... do you want it/them because it's on the "don't touch" list?
Do you think that you would want it as bad if it was readily accessible to you w/o guilt regularly?

I could refer this to the popular male/female 80/20 debate...
Or that food that taste so good and is so bad for you...
Or that drug that is illegal...

I want this blog to inspire and really cause you to sit down and think a bit.
So, I have decided to keep it short.
*Ponder*

Personality Types

Today I was having a tough time deciding what to blog about...
Mainly because it's wednesday, i am in between full time positions in my primary career...
Under my preferred financial status to focus on my secondary career of marketing through my entrepreneurial efforts...
But yet still have many errands, tasks, projects, meetings, and goals to focus on today...in the next two hours specifically...

Can you guess my personality type?
How about Scatterbrained? LOL...
Noooo but I would label myself as a Overachiever, or Multi-tasker
Now to define multi-tasker as a personality type is not speaking just to activities, but also thoughts, goals for the day, actions, etc.
Yes - I am making up my own definition for the purpose of this blog.

It's my blog and my brain I can do what I want to right?


I think you have the very basic personality types you can define:
Quiet
Shy
Loud
Fun
Mean
Jealous
Cocky
Smart or Smart A**


But there are some folks I know who's personality is 2-3 of those in one. 
And if there a gemini one on mon, weds, fri, and another on tues, thurs, and weekends. HA!
One of the things I love about myself and others is the Chameleon affect of a personality....

My personality matches my environment and what's smartest for me to be happy, successful in that current environment... *see i'm smart too ;-)*... so it changes... based on YOU, based on the drama of the current environment, or based on the loud person in the corner that seems to seek all of the attention of everyone in the room. I stop.... think.... ok, what is the best version of MY personality for this current circumstance that, in the end ....will end up helping me? Then..... I become... Me...

So... who are you?
What's your personality type?
Do you have more than one type?
Are you a chameleon personality type as well? *Love You if so!*
Do you have pet peeve personality types? If so why?
Whats your fav type?

Loving your feedback on today's blog.... weekly wednesday...check back next week.....keep me on track to post...because as you read above, I get distracted easily with Life :). #adhd