WHOA! Missed three wednesdays back to back huh folx? Miss me??? :)
Well my life is constantly evolving which I believe is always a good thing if you have SOME consistency... When I transition I must prioritize and unfortunately weekly wednesday blog's fall to the bottom of this tall stock pile. But guess what! It's time for that annual out of the country trip tomorrow so I have an off day today to focus on my inner thoughts...and then as a treat (to me) share them with you ;-).
Today I want to touch on Our Circles..
For those of you on Google + (name drop) we can use that analogy...
Most folks have social circles.
These are people we are social with... almost constantly..
Maybe over social networks, phone app's, long distance phone calls, or in person..
Did you know these people (whether you feel you are no longer impressionable and/or a leader) in some ways can shape your everyday life?
Think about it... they are quite possibly in your subconscious.
How you determine what should be your acceptable goals for the day, verified negatives you are continuously trying to remove from your life, or laziness with an array of every day tasks...
Our circles and how the people in those circles live there everyday life (the parts they make viewable to the public/friends anyway) rubs off on our standard way of life.
Shocking! Huh?!
I know. This is even true of us that like to think of ourselves as leaders and not followers, or people that set the standard....
How? Well think of this.. You are trying your best not to "out shine" your friends that are struggling to keep up with you and your daily achievements so you instead move to a slower beat...
You may think, well "I am encouraging them daily to do better..." but who then encourages YOU daily to "do better then what you already can do"? Hmmmm *chew on that*
Or maybe that circle of friends that you only kick it with, chill and relax with..laugh at movies with.. have different forms of intoxication with... they may be VERY diverse from yourself..
As you relax... I am pretty sure this is the time you allow yourself to slightly vegitate and just focus on the best ways to achieve laughter (which is a healthy form of entertainment for us) but..I am willing to bet someone in that group for example... cusses a little more then they should, or... eating habits are crazy (but whatever there eating always looks great!)..Now even though these aren't your daily habits...you know whats happening right?...
The laxisidasical environment in which you relax...you will take home with you to your own solitary domain where these habits will become apart of you and you won't even know it!
Ah. Yes. This sux right?
I know. I agree actually. Because the few tiny (revolving door) circles I have I quite enjoy them for their primary purposes.
My goal is definitely to create healthier circles for my mind, body, and soul... but in the meantime..who want's to be by themselves all the time? Or hanging with their parents/wise elders everyday?
Not this only chile!
Have a great labor day weekend folx.
Pray for me as I jet to DR ;-).
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