Consistency
Routines
Schedules
Yield
ORGANIZATION.
Outside of me being a Virgo born from two Virgos one of the things I have learned in my 30's is that without consistent day to day routines and schedules between my 9-5 positions time periods:
KAOS is the only thing that happens in my life...monday thru friday...
Did you know you can schedule Fun?
Showers?
Eating?
If it helps you... do it!
Guess what I like...tasks/to-do lists... that I can check off when done.
I also know about myself I am a little OCD... (this is genetic)
& my ADHD thrives off of KAOS.
Let's see if I can get back to weekly wednesday blogs scheduled in my weekly wednesday tasks.
</END.
Wednesday, January 30, 2013
Wednesday, October 31, 2012
RECOVERy
Change is inevitable.
Suffering is sometimes needed.
Loss is almost always experienced in a lifetime.
Let-Down occurs often.
Mistakes are actions worth growing from.
How do you ReCover?
I want to say I allow myself a few minutes to be depressed....
Then comes ReFlection time...
Somewhere after that a lesson is learned and stored away in my mental.
Then I am up on my feet on to the next milestone of life or everyday livin'...
If ..we all.. woke up every single day and said to ourselves in the mirror...
"Self - there is a good chance something you would not like to happen to you -- will happen today."
"But! Irregardless if it does - YOU WILL RECOVER."
Recovery Might not be so Hard.
Peace Gods & Goddesses
Keep Him Near
*weekly weds blog*
***POOF
Suffering is sometimes needed.
Loss is almost always experienced in a lifetime.
Let-Down occurs often.
Mistakes are actions worth growing from.
How do you ReCover?
I want to say I allow myself a few minutes to be depressed....
Then comes ReFlection time...
Somewhere after that a lesson is learned and stored away in my mental.
Then I am up on my feet on to the next milestone of life or everyday livin'...
If ..we all.. woke up every single day and said to ourselves in the mirror...
"Self - there is a good chance something you would not like to happen to you -- will happen today."
"But! Irregardless if it does - YOU WILL RECOVER."
Recovery Might not be so Hard.
Peace Gods & Goddesses
Keep Him Near
*weekly weds blog*
***POOF
Wednesday, September 26, 2012
Supporting Your Own
At What Cost?
How many of us start each day off thinking about ourselves?
Its only natural right?
Especially folks without loved ones they live with or are responsible for?
Unless there were lingering thoughts from the night before...
Everyday I hope that I stop and think about how I can help my community
Whether its a young man or woman, boy, or girl
Sometimes our elderly, or mature and wise in age
But then I stop and Consider the Cost...
Can I afford too?
It's difficult at times determining which path to take
1. The road where we tunnel vision - focus - on building ourselves to be the best we can be so we can financially, mentally, spiritually, and via our own influence and connections be able to help someone with less then what we have... How long will it take to become that powerhouse?
OR
2. Where we stop at every open hand, every friend/old foe/cousin and kin to share wealth, knowledge, care & concern, earned/networked: connects'... then don't look back, just pray and hope...
I think the individuals I take pride in knowing and make me smile THE MOST!...
Are the ones of us that smile, extend, give, share, help with not one inch of hesitation of "Will this benefit Me"... and even when!!!!! It is not recieved in a grateful form or smiled back upon, or maybe even spit on...they smile in stride...That Child of God.... will stay blessed.
Who did you help today?
How many of us start each day off thinking about ourselves?
Its only natural right?
Especially folks without loved ones they live with or are responsible for?
Unless there were lingering thoughts from the night before...
Everyday I hope that I stop and think about how I can help my community
Whether its a young man or woman, boy, or girl
Sometimes our elderly, or mature and wise in age
But then I stop and Consider the Cost...
Can I afford too?
It's difficult at times determining which path to take
1. The road where we tunnel vision - focus - on building ourselves to be the best we can be so we can financially, mentally, spiritually, and via our own influence and connections be able to help someone with less then what we have... How long will it take to become that powerhouse?
OR
2. Where we stop at every open hand, every friend/old foe/cousin and kin to share wealth, knowledge, care & concern, earned/networked: connects'... then don't look back, just pray and hope...
I think the individuals I take pride in knowing and make me smile THE MOST!...
Are the ones of us that smile, extend, give, share, help with not one inch of hesitation of "Will this benefit Me"... and even when!!!!! It is not recieved in a grateful form or smiled back upon, or maybe even spit on...they smile in stride...That Child of God.... will stay blessed.
Who did you help today?
Wednesday, September 19, 2012
Consistency Myrica is Killing Spontaneous Myrica
One of my Failed New Years goals for 2012... Consistency!
How does one live in the world of fun, new, exciting, spontaneity and still spawn structure?
I haven't figured it out yet.
YOU should be able to tell that though.
If you are one of my readers you know that I can't even produce my weekly weds blog every weds!
But the part that pains me is... consistency or ...the ability to be consistent, stares me right in the face.
It's reachable.
Fully attainable by me at most times.
But I pass by it... ignore it.. opt for the "new"...or "unknown"...
Here comes the grown up insert folks ... wait for it...
"When I end up being spontaneous and avoid my consistent mature/responsible plan or action of the day, in the end ...it wasn't really worth it".
#sigh
It's true.
Whoever invented schedules, daily goals, rules for one self during the work week....
Definitely knew what they were doing.
They probably realized that their whole life was wasting away on
..."FUN!", "NEW!", "SPONTANEOUS!"
All the while they were ending each day, week, month with nothing to show for it..
Who wants to Die that way?
Not me!!!!!
*runs after consistent myrica*
How does one live in the world of fun, new, exciting, spontaneity and still spawn structure?
I haven't figured it out yet.
YOU should be able to tell that though.
If you are one of my readers you know that I can't even produce my weekly weds blog every weds!
But the part that pains me is... consistency or ...the ability to be consistent, stares me right in the face.
It's reachable.
Fully attainable by me at most times.
But I pass by it... ignore it.. opt for the "new"...or "unknown"...
Here comes the grown up insert folks ... wait for it...
"When I end up being spontaneous and avoid my consistent mature/responsible plan or action of the day, in the end ...it wasn't really worth it".
#sigh
It's true.
Whoever invented schedules, daily goals, rules for one self during the work week....
Definitely knew what they were doing.
They probably realized that their whole life was wasting away on
..."FUN!", "NEW!", "SPONTANEOUS!"
All the while they were ending each day, week, month with nothing to show for it..
Who wants to Die that way?
Not me!!!!!
*runs after consistent myrica*
****Exits stage Right**********************
Wednesday, August 29, 2012
Your Friendship/Social Circle
WHOA! Missed three wednesdays back to back huh folx? Miss me??? :)
Well my life is constantly evolving which I believe is always a good thing if you have SOME consistency... When I transition I must prioritize and unfortunately weekly wednesday blog's fall to the bottom of this tall stock pile. But guess what! It's time for that annual out of the country trip tomorrow so I have an off day today to focus on my inner thoughts...and then as a treat (to me) share them with you ;-).
Today I want to touch on Our Circles..
For those of you on Google + (name drop) we can use that analogy...
Most folks have social circles.
These are people we are social with... almost constantly..
Maybe over social networks, phone app's, long distance phone calls, or in person..
Did you know these people (whether you feel you are no longer impressionable and/or a leader) in some ways can shape your everyday life?
Think about it... they are quite possibly in your subconscious.
How you determine what should be your acceptable goals for the day, verified negatives you are continuously trying to remove from your life, or laziness with an array of every day tasks...
Our circles and how the people in those circles live there everyday life (the parts they make viewable to the public/friends anyway) rubs off on our standard way of life.
Shocking! Huh?!
I know. This is even true of us that like to think of ourselves as leaders and not followers, or people that set the standard....
How? Well think of this.. You are trying your best not to "out shine" your friends that are struggling to keep up with you and your daily achievements so you instead move to a slower beat...
You may think, well "I am encouraging them daily to do better..." but who then encourages YOU daily to "do better then what you already can do"? Hmmmm *chew on that*
Or maybe that circle of friends that you only kick it with, chill and relax with..laugh at movies with.. have different forms of intoxication with... they may be VERY diverse from yourself..
As you relax... I am pretty sure this is the time you allow yourself to slightly vegitate and just focus on the best ways to achieve laughter (which is a healthy form of entertainment for us) but..I am willing to bet someone in that group for example... cusses a little more then they should, or... eating habits are crazy (but whatever there eating always looks great!)..Now even though these aren't your daily habits...you know whats happening right?...
The laxisidasical environment in which you relax...you will take home with you to your own solitary domain where these habits will become apart of you and you won't even know it!
Ah. Yes. This sux right?
I know. I agree actually. Because the few tiny (revolving door) circles I have I quite enjoy them for their primary purposes.
My goal is definitely to create healthier circles for my mind, body, and soul... but in the meantime..who want's to be by themselves all the time? Or hanging with their parents/wise elders everyday?
Not this only chile!
Have a great labor day weekend folx.
Pray for me as I jet to DR ;-).
Well my life is constantly evolving which I believe is always a good thing if you have SOME consistency... When I transition I must prioritize and unfortunately weekly wednesday blog's fall to the bottom of this tall stock pile. But guess what! It's time for that annual out of the country trip tomorrow so I have an off day today to focus on my inner thoughts...and then as a treat (to me) share them with you ;-).
Today I want to touch on Our Circles..
For those of you on Google + (name drop) we can use that analogy...
Most folks have social circles.
These are people we are social with... almost constantly..
Maybe over social networks, phone app's, long distance phone calls, or in person..
Did you know these people (whether you feel you are no longer impressionable and/or a leader) in some ways can shape your everyday life?
Think about it... they are quite possibly in your subconscious.
How you determine what should be your acceptable goals for the day, verified negatives you are continuously trying to remove from your life, or laziness with an array of every day tasks...
Our circles and how the people in those circles live there everyday life (the parts they make viewable to the public/friends anyway) rubs off on our standard way of life.
Shocking! Huh?!
I know. This is even true of us that like to think of ourselves as leaders and not followers, or people that set the standard....
How? Well think of this.. You are trying your best not to "out shine" your friends that are struggling to keep up with you and your daily achievements so you instead move to a slower beat...
You may think, well "I am encouraging them daily to do better..." but who then encourages YOU daily to "do better then what you already can do"? Hmmmm *chew on that*
Or maybe that circle of friends that you only kick it with, chill and relax with..laugh at movies with.. have different forms of intoxication with... they may be VERY diverse from yourself..
As you relax... I am pretty sure this is the time you allow yourself to slightly vegitate and just focus on the best ways to achieve laughter (which is a healthy form of entertainment for us) but..I am willing to bet someone in that group for example... cusses a little more then they should, or... eating habits are crazy (but whatever there eating always looks great!)..Now even though these aren't your daily habits...you know whats happening right?...
The laxisidasical environment in which you relax...you will take home with you to your own solitary domain where these habits will become apart of you and you won't even know it!
Ah. Yes. This sux right?
I know. I agree actually. Because the few tiny (revolving door) circles I have I quite enjoy them for their primary purposes.
My goal is definitely to create healthier circles for my mind, body, and soul... but in the meantime..who want's to be by themselves all the time? Or hanging with their parents/wise elders everyday?
Not this only chile!
Have a great labor day weekend folx.
Pray for me as I jet to DR ;-).
Wednesday, August 1, 2012
I definitely love the Lord!
Psalm 145:18-19 () 18 The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth. 19 He fulfills the desires of those who fear him; he hears their cry and saves them. #Bible http://j.mp/uMaeHw
Wednesday, July 25, 2012
Life Change!
Started a new job this week... life been real...
Real Grownup that is..
Be back with you kids next wednesday...way past the bedtime....
Real Grownup that is..
Be back with you kids next wednesday...way past the bedtime....
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